“What If Your Girlfriend Hangs Up On You”

A question I often get is, “Russell,
what should I do if a woman hangs up on me?”

Well, it depends on the situation.

If she’s a girl you’ve just met
or are just dating casually, then just delete
her number and move on. (Good riddance!)

But if she is your girlfriend, then
things are a bit trickier since you’re kind
of in a lose-lose situation:

If you call back, her romantic respect
and attraction may drop, and if you don’t,
the incident could be “used” against you in
the future. (It doesn’t matter who’s right
and who’s wrong. All she will remember is that
she cried for hours because you didn’t call
back.)

So here is what I suggest:

After she hangs up on you, call her
back ONCE and see if she answers. If she does,
then good. But if she doesn’t, then simply leave
a message telling her to call you back and
then DO NOT CALL AGAIN UNTIL SHE DOES.

If she doesn’t call for a week,
then don’t call for a week.

This way, you will demonstrate you
*have* tried calling back, but she was the
one who didn’t accept it. And since you did
not keep on calling her like a little puppy,
her romantic respect for you shouldn’t lower.

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When your wife hangs up on you she don't like you and Divorce is coming!